I dont need help with the stairs

Back in the pool after six weeks away, fellow early birds are regaled with my stories of  swimming off the coast of Australia on Boxing Day. Whitley Bay it wasn’t.

I noticed a few stiff bones and aching muscles as I tried to get back into early morning routine. Age.  My annual check up approaches. Should I admit that I can no longer hear the conversation in a crowded restaurant?  Or, like most men, do I soldier on regardless and not bother a busy doctor?

A few weeks back, a young man on the London Underground kindly offered me his seat. I was pleasantly surprised that such courtesy still existed. As I graciously declined, I went into an urgent self examination. Did I look pale, was I sweating, limping or otherwise showing signs of decrepitude? I had to conclude that the seat was offered purely on account of my age.

Last week, as I arrived for a meeting that was to held in a first floor room, my host inquired sotto voce if I was “alright with stairs”. I nodded meekly whilst debating  whether to  declare that this was  a man who had climbed all the way to Machu Picchu. That was some years ago, my wife patiently reminded me later.

The first credit from The Pensions Service appeared on my bank statement last week  as if to give formal assent to my new status in life. Even though my self perception may still be lagging behind in robust middle age, I am increasingly seen by those around me as an old man.

There are some advantages of being seen as senior. Expectations are low as I sit quietly far down the conference table at a meeting, until some sharp observations emerge from under the grey hair to confound my younger colleagues, or so I kid myself. No one expects much from someone of my age.

For the first time in my life, and egged on by a friend in his eighties, I buy a pair of bright red corduroys in the sales. I have never dared be as bold before but am no longer required to conform to the uniform greyness of the city.

Opportunities to purchase abound. It seems I am almost entirely responsible for the recovery of the U K economy as people of my age account for nearly half of consumer spending and  three quarters of the individual wealth.

Thankfully, the viagra pedlars gave up on me some years ago. It happened about the time I upgraded the anti virus software. Instead  I  receive an invitation in an unmarked envelope to buy an aerosol spray which the illustrations claim will surround me with naked young women after just one puff. There is an further  leaflet for stair lifts tucked in for good measure.

How did they find out about me? I blame it on attending a weekend described as ‘for adults only’. To my great relief, it turned out to be aerosol free.  I was by some decades, in my possibly biased opinion, the youngest person present. Once I had taken a deep breath and downed a glass of wine, I thoroughly enjoyed myself and have booked to go back next year, taking advantage of a generous discount by  doing so before departure. Such clever marketing.

I do not identify with any of the  elderly models used to illustrate all the promotional material for grey pounders. They do not look like me in any shape or form. But I have to accept that I am a commodity and that is increasingly how the world sees me. Perhaps I should enjoy the civilities and privileges that it bestows.

What makes a great city?

In my admittedly limited experience of world cities, Melbourne stands out. Thanks to the foresight of the founding fathers, the city is well laid out with exceptionally wide boulevards, which allows for trees and trams.

It is a manageable city; easy to navigate and not at all oppressive. Some impressive skyscrapers  fit in sympathetically with some fine Victorian buildings. Skylines and building materials have been respected.  Melbourne blends the old and the new in a way that Boris’s London so abjectly fails to do.

There is a thriving cultural quarter on the riverfront – if you forgive the inevitable cavernous casino.  Art galleries were built  on railway marshalling yards twenty years ago  and curated to a  high standard.  The cricket stadium and the tennis arena – which hosts the Australian Open this week –   are within walking distance.

Though some would say that the continent lacks history, the story of how the land was stolen from the aborigines through a contrived treaty, how the city  boomed in a mine rush and then played the key role in Australia coming together as a nation, is compelling.

You may prefer Sydney, which has overshadowed its more sedate rival in the last century. But I found Sydney overwhelming and overrun, without the same cohesion or charm.  In my equally limited experience of iconic buildings of the world however, Sydney Opera House is only just behind the Taj Mahal. An interval drink  looking out over the harbour was a  highlight of the holiday.

What makes a great city?  Clearly not size or else why would Durham outclass York. Location helps, as with Sydney, but it is more about cherishing the heritage of your city and having the flair and ambition to carefully build on it.

Sign for Raif

It would be generous of King Salman ( aged 79 ) to grant a King’s  pardon to Raif Badawi on his accession to the throne. It would be a gesture for the world leaders  falling over themselves to meet the new king  to link arms and carry a placard  saying “Je suis Raif”.

Raif Badawi still faces a further 950 lashes and 10 years imprisonment. All we can do is to sign the petition at www.amnesty.org.uk and reflect on whether  the importance of the Saudi nation as our biggest purchaser of armaments is sufficient  reason to ignore abuses of human rights.

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